Monday, March 7, 2011

RELATIONSHIP




Everyday has been a learning curve, trying hard to become a better person, a better muslim, a better wife, a better daugther/daughter in law, a better sister, a better friend and trying to do everything else better.
I am not perfect, I am only human.

This year is our 4th year together and I pray that our love will remain stronger each day.




The relationship which I treasure most is to spend our time together thru thick and thins and may Allah bless us with a little angle (angels).

A LITTLE REMINDER FOR MYSELF

On being a wife

Rasulullah SAW dalam hadisnya bermaksud, "Hak suami atas isterinya (tanggungjawab isteri terhadap suaminya), bahawa isteri tidak boleh meninggalkan hamparan (tilam) suaminya, hendaklah menerima dengan baik pemberian suaminya, hendaklah taat pada perintah suaminya, tidak boleh keluar dari rumahnya kecuali dengan izin suaminya, dan tidak boleh membawa (membenarkan) orang yang dibenci oleh suaminya masuk ke dalam rumahnya." (riwayat Al-Tabrani)

Rasulullah SAW dalam hadisnya bermaksud, "Bila isteri itu mengerjakan sembahyang lima waktu, berpuasa bulan Ramadan, memelihara kemaluannya dan mematuhi suruhan dan larangan suaminya, maka akan dimasukkan dia ke dalam syurga." (riwayat Abu Hurairah)

On being a Daughter

"Dan kami perintahkan kepada manusia (berbuat baik) kepada kedua ibu bapanya, ibunya telah mengandungkannya dalam keadaan lemah yang bertambah-tambah, dan menyusukannya dalam masa dua tahun. Bersyukurlah kepada-Ku dan kepada kedua ibu bapamu, hanya kepada -Ku-lah tempat kembalimu (Luqman:14)

On Friendship with Opposite Sex

I read this somewhere and it's interesting ...

"If there is ongoing interaction with someone with whom you have been very honest in sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings, this can generate a feeling of closeness that stimulates even more sharing—and more closeness, and on and on. Eventually, this relationship can become extremely close and an emotional attachment develops, causing serious damage to the marriage—whether or not it ever becomes "sexual."

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